1. The gap between rich and poor is too great and family ties have faded. Nowadays, even if they are relatives, the rich rarely have contact with the poor. People, and even they don't want to leave, they don't like each other and despise each other. If you have money and power, you will have all kinds of family, friends and love. If you have no money and no power, you will have no love at all. Real life is like that, even if you are brothers or sisters. is the same. If you don't believe it, take a closer look at the people around you, they are the best examples.
2. There is no connection of interest between the relatives. Although there is a certain blood connection, they basically live their own lives. Except for a few times during vacations, it is difficult to see each other more than once. a year. If we meet less and everyone has their own circle of life, there will be no connection of interest. He is uselessile to rely solely on blood ties. If there is a chain of interests as a link and they move frequently, it is impossible to alienate.
3. A strong feeling of comparison and false enthusiasm among loved ones. Nowadays, relatives and friends start all kinds of comparisons when they meet each other, whether they have better cars than others or who buys more expensive houses; don't compare with children, test scores are compared to courses children enrolled in, salary is compared to others, or the house in their hometown is bigger. This kind of false comparison and false enthusiasm makes people very uncomfortable. Many people born after 2000 cannot stand this “false” phenomenon. The meetings are just a few “informal” greetings, and then they go home.
4. No contact with each other for a long timegtime and there is no topic of communication with the emergence of the epidemic, everyone is busy with their own affairs and relatives communicate with each other less and less. Less. In recent years, everyone feels that relatives are not good at all, and the most important thing is that your family is happy. For the older generation, they still have childhood friendships and they have some connection to drinking. But for the younger generation, those born after 2000, it seems to have nothing to do with them. Maybe it's because they live in different times and have different friend circles, so even if they meet, they have no topics to talk about and have very little communication. Especially parents who only half know each other, there is no communication.
5. Nowadays, when you visit relatives, in addition to bringing fruits and drinks, you must also giver red envelopes when you see the children. If a parent brings four or five children to your house, and you only have one child, and they give 500 yuan to your child, you will have to give at least 500 yuan, but in this way, you will not give only 100 yuan each. person. If you don't say anything about it to your face, you could still face complaints from those close to you. Some people take their children to visit relatives with the intention of making a lot of money. After visiting relatives, the cost is at least thousands of dollars. For some families, life is already very tense, and handing out red envelopes will only make things worse! And to save face, I had to publish it.
6. If you don't get married, where will your loved ones come from? Today's young people, whether boys or girls, are increasingly single. They may be afraid of getting married, or not want toor marry out of distrust. This is also one of the reasons for negative population growth. Nowadays, people born in the 90s and 2000s are no longer married, as if they were not married or not. Most parents in life are from the father's generation. Their loved ones leave on their own and come back to themselves. Without a daughter-in-law, there are naturally fewer relatives. Over time, everyone is busy at work, and contact between friends may become less and less. I have thousands of friends on WeChat, but I can't find anyone I want to message.