Containment is quite simply a “nightmare” for women. Many pregnant women thought that they could enjoy life happily after giving birth, but they did not expect that more desperate things would happen during confinement. Everyone knows it if you're not. Be careful, you will leave many unhealthy problems for the rest of your life.
Have you ever experienced the most painful things during confinement?
1. Incision pain
This varies from person to person and mainly depends on pain tolerance. New mothers who give birth naturally may have a side incision during delivery. Although the lateral incision does not cause labor pain, it should not be underestimated. A C-section will leave an obvious scar on your abdomen. At the same time, after the anesthesia disappears after the operationion, the pain will be very obvious.
2. Bad habits during childbirth
Pregnant women have very active sweat glands and tend to sweat a lot. They also have lochia in their lower body. , and their hygiene is very poor. If they are not cleaned, bacteria can easily reproduce and cause puerperal infection. I was sweating a lot during my confinement period, I was sweating all the time even if I hadn't done anything. After a month, it got better naturally.
Nowadays, the home environment is better. There are solar water heaters, bathroom heaters and hair dryers, which can completely avoid the appearance of wind and cold in postpartum bathing, I find. that my mood has improved. So, I took a shower carefully. Can you imagine what it would be like not to wash your hair for half a month?oh? Was it like having a pile of grass on your head, and there were all kinds of bugs moving around in it? grass.
3. Postpartum meals until I threw up
N meals a day, all kinds of soups and water until I threw up, thinking it was for the child's pleasure. Eat! But the even scarier lockdown meal is coming! Forget eggs, there are all kinds of foods made with brown sugar too. Finally, there is even pork belly soup!
4. Breast engorgement
During childbirth, the breasts will swell to a certain extent and the milk will rain every day. I had to use a milking machine to express the excess milk, which was also painful. Thinking about lockdown is so devastating.
5. Not sleeping completely
Since the confinement period, I have to feed my baby on time every daybear, and it's even more difficult. at night I drank milk several times. Once I even fell asleep with my baby. Now I'm afraid to think about it. If the child chokes on milk, I won't know. ALL RIGHT. I was so sleepy at that time that I couldn't sleep well when I was pregnant. I thought that after giving birth, I would be able to return to normal life, but I didn't expect that this was just the beginning.
6. Aches and pains
I don't know if other mothers have felt this. I often had pain and weakness in my waist and knees. during confinement. Especially the size. The pain is so painful that I can't stand it. Until many years pass, this problem still exists.
7. Being blamed inexplicably by others
It's just not feeling good after giving birth, it's like not being able to dosleep at night. But there are still people who criticize me. I remember when my husband's aunt came to visit us, she told me that my milk wasn't good, it was really boring, okay? You said you don't have to help, but don't make trouble. It's really annoying.
8. Differences in parental
concepts. The elders have experience in raising children, and there are merits in many aspects. However, the younger generation in modern times follows more scientific methods of raising children, so there are endless arguments and no one can understand anyone. My mother-in-law and I argued endlessly about this. To this day, I still clearly remember that the child fell asleep during the first month of childbirth and the mother-in-law refused to go to the hospital for a check-up, claiming that there was no had nothing wrong with the child in the first month. Later,I decided to go to the hospital and discovered that the postpartum meal was nutritionally unbalanced and low in sodium!
9. Sudden feeling of loss
During the confinement period, I cried constantly. Even if nothing was happening, I still wanted it. cry. . I cried until my eyes hurt and I was extremely angry. Later, I learned that confined women are prone to depression after giving birth.
Even though the imprisonment only lasted a month, I felt like I had persisted for several years. Only those who have experienced it will know the pain and fatigue it entails.
Speaking of confinement, it is an unforgettable experience for most friends with babies. Because if you sit well during confinement, your daily life and even your appearance will change in the future. If you are unable to sit properly, you could suffersuffer from back pain, back pain, pain in heels, fingers, gynecological diseases, etc. So I personally think that confinement must be done well. So how to have a good period of confinement? You just don't blow any air? You don't take a shower? Can you avoid it by not washing your hair? No!
First of all, whether it is natural childbirth or cesarean section, the bone seams of friends are opened after childbirth. If a cold wind blows at this time, you can imagine what your own physique will become. Will my bone joints hurt in the future on windy or rainy days? Therefore, blowing wind, especially cold wind, is not authorized during confinement!
How about taking a shower and washing your hair? With the improvement in the standard of living, hygiene is now something that every citizen pays particular attention to.e. Should you wash your hair and take a bath during confinement? My experience tells you that you can take a bath and wash your hair during confinement, but there are taboos.
When taking a bath or washing your hair, you should ensure that the indoor temperature is at least 30 degrees and the water used should be hot or cold. You cannot use solar-powered yin and yang water (so-called yin and yang water refers to cold water and hot water mixed together). After washing, the water should be wiped dry immediately, especially hair. If you can follow this method, you will ensure that there will be no problems during the confinement period.
I believe that as long as you follow some educationIf you follow the taboos discussed in the book for children, there will be no problem having a good period of confinement. The heat only lasts a few days andthe discomfort only lasts a few days. If you persist, you will be comfortable every day in the future. I hope all mothers experiencing confinement can have a safe and happy confinement period. Come on